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Understanding Pseudo-Typicality: When “Blending In” Comes at a Cost
In neurodiverse communities, the concept of pseudo-typicality describes the experience of appearing “typical” while masking the unique ways your brain experiences the world. For individuals with autism, ADHD, or related neurodivergent profiles, this can feel like constantly performing to fit societal expectations—often at a significant mental and emotional cost. What Is Pseudo-Typicality? Pseudo-typicality occurs when someone consciously or unconsciously mimics neurotypical

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Oct 203 min read


Understanding Persistent Demand Avoidance (PDA): What Families, Adults, and Clinicians Should Know
At The Refuge, we work closely with neurodivergent individuals and their families, which means we often encounter presentations of autism...

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Oct 24 min read


Emerging Trends in Neurodiversity: Emotional Regulation and the Role of Technology
Neurodiversity acknowledges the natural variation in how brains develop, process information, and interact with the world. For...

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Sep 153 min read


Back-to-School Transitions for Neurodivergent Families: Support, Structure & Self-Compassion
As the back-to-school season rolls in, many families feel the familiar mix of anticipation, stress, and hope. For neurodivergent...

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Aug 73 min read


Perfectionism and the Neurodivergent Mind: Breaking Free From the Myth of "Getting It Right"
At The Refuge Marriage and Family Therapy , we often hear from clients who are deeply self-aware but deeply exhausted—constantly trying...

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May 163 min read


EVENT: Neurodiversity Resource Fair
🌟 The Refuge is Joining the 3rd Annual Neurodiversity Resource Fair! 🌟 Celebrating Different Minds, One Connection at a Time We’re...

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Apr 232 min read


Twice Exceptional (2e): The Gift and Challenge of Duality
At The Refuge, we celebrate the beautifully complex nature of neurodiversity. One group that often gets misunderstood or overlooked is...

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Apr 92 min read


Navigating Gender Dysphoria and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
For individuals who experience both gender dysphoria and autism spectrum disorder (ASD), the journey toward self-awareness and acceptance...

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Mar 105 min read


Understanding Masking in the Neurodiverse Community: Embracing Authenticity
In the neurodiverse community, masking is a topic of increasing importance. While the term may be new to some, masking is something that...

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Feb 243 min read


The Double Empathy Problem: Bridging the Gap Between Neurodiverse and Neurotypical Worlds
In the world of mental health and relationships, communication is often hailed as the cornerstone of connection. But what happens when...

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Jan 243 min read


Understanding Interoceptive Cues and Neurodivergence: Enhancing Self-Awareness and Well-Being
In our work at The Refuge Marriage and Family Therapy, we emphasize the importance of understanding oneself holistically, especially for...

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Nov 13, 20244 min read


Understanding Guilt and Shame: How to Cope and Heal
At The Refuge Marriage and Family Therapy, we often see clients grappling with the complex emotions of guilt and shame. While these two...

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Sep 13, 20243 min read


Cassandra Syndrome: A Silent Struggle in Neurodiverse Relationships
Cassandra Syndrome, also known as Cassandra Phenomenon, is a term used to describe the emotional distress experienced by neurotypical...

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Sep 10, 20241 min read


Somatic Experiencing: Healing Trauma Through the Body
At The Refuge Marriage and Family Therapy, we understand that trauma lives not just in the mind, but also in the body. While traditional...

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Sep 5, 20244 min read


Embracing Neurodivergence: Understanding and Supporting Different Minds
At The Refuge Marriage and Family Therapy, we are passionate about creating a safe and supportive environment for all individuals,...

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Sep 5, 20245 min read


Fight Right: How to Improve Communication in Relationships
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. Whether it's with a partner, family member, or friend, disagreements are inevitable....

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Sep 5, 20244 min read


Holistic Mental Health: What Does It Mean?
In recent years, the concept of "holistic health" has gained popularity as people seek more comprehensive approaches to their well-being....

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Aug 30, 20244 min read


Understanding the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy
The Gottman Method is a highly respected and research-based approach to couples therapy, designed to strengthen relationships by focusing...

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Aug 30, 20244 min read
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